The Truth About Weddings from a Wedding Photographer
Hey there! If you’re dreaming of your big day or just love a good wedding story, pull up a chair. As a wedding photographer, I've had a front-row seat to the magic, the mayhem, and everything in between. Let me give you the inside scoop on what really goes down at weddings—the good, the quirky, and the unforgettable.
Every Wedding Has Its Hiccups
First things first, let’s bust a myth: there’s no such thing as a perfect wedding. From last-minute rain to the flower girl having a tantrum right down the aisle, hiccups are just part of the day. The best weddings aren’t the ones without flaws—they’re the ones where everyone rolls with the punches and keeps smiling.
It’s All About the Moments
Sure, weddings are about love and commitment, but they’re also about all those small moments that you might not expect to remember. That look of pure joy when the couple sees each other for the first time, the grandparents busting moves on the dance floor, the tearful toasts—these are the gold nuggets I live to capture. These moments often mean more than the planned highlights.
The Best Photos Aren’t Always Posed
Ask any wedding photographer, and they’ll tell you: the best photos are often the ones that are unplanned. It could be a candid laugh during the ceremony or a spontaneous group hug. Life—and love—isn’t posed, and sometimes the photos that reflect that are the most memorable.
Weddings Are a Marathon, Not a Sprint
For the couple, the wedding day can feel like it's over in a blink. For everyone involved in making the day happen, it's a marathon. From the early morning makeup sessions to the final dance, it’s a long day. My tip? Stay hydrated, wear comfortable shoes, and soak in every moment.
The Behind-the-Scenes Crew Are the Unsung Heroes
Speaking of making the day happen, shoutout to the often unseen heroes: the planners, the DJs, the caterers, and yes, your photographers. These folks work tirelessly to pull off the day without a hitch. When you see them in action, give them a nod or a quick thank you—it means more than you might think.
Love is Love
This might sound cheesy, but it’s true: every wedding is a beautiful reminder that in the end, love wins. No matter the style of the wedding or the personalities of the people getting married, the love is always palpable. And capturing that? Well, it never gets old.
Your Wedding, Your Rules
And finally, here’s a piece of advice from someone who’s seen it all: make your wedding your own. Trends come and go, but your wedding should reflect who you are as a couple. Whether that means a traditional church wedding, a backyard bash, or eloping in the mountains, do what feels right for you.
So, there you have it—some truths about weddings from the eyes of a photographer. Whether you’re planning a wedding or just dreaming about one, remember that at the heart of all the planning, the true magic of a wedding day is in the love and laughter. Here’s to many more weddings filled with real, unforgettable moments. Cheers!